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First and foremost, talk to the players. Do they share your views?
Ask them to complete a questionnaire about their reasons for playing rugby, how they prepare for a match and what (if any) motivational techniques they use or work for them. Then, discuss possible routines that the players can follow in preparing for a match.
The insights gained from their answers will help guide you in motivating your players. For example, someone who is playing for largely social reasons is unlikely to respond to “blood, sweat and tears” type exhortations!
Questions players could ask themselves in preparing a pre-match routine:
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Once at the ground, follow a set routine. A lot of match day anxiety is caused by concentrating on factors beyond your control. Having a set routine encourages players to focus on those factors they have greater control over and this in turn helps in motivating them to go out and perform.
Discuss this with your players first. If they have been involved in formulating the routine they are far more likely to come up with one that suits them.
The discussion will also raise awareness of the different motivational needs and techniques of different players – sensitivity to others is not always at the front of every player’s mind!
Be flexible – different situations and different players will require different approaches. Sometimes all that will be required is a quiet word or reminder here and there, at others a more forceful statement of intent is required.
Some of the less scrupulous American football coaches have been known to loosen the screws on the hinges of the changing-room door on match day so they can burst through at half time to fire up the team. Other US basketball coaches have handed out what they told their players were special secret NASA performance enhancing pills at the break, when actually they were just sugar sweets. They worked – but only once! |
Don’t dwell on past matches, performances, errors or the opposition. Concentrate on your team and players, giving them both specific individual and collective tasks to focus on.
As Bob Dwyer used to say: "Concentrate on performing to the best of your ability, the points will take care of themselves."
Lastly, avoid the blood and thunder, win-at-all-costs approach if possible. Rugby is not a matter of life or death and the focus should firmly be on enjoyment.
Yes, winning is important, but as I remind my players, if that was all that mattered I would arrange all our fixtures against the local primary school. You can play badly and win, or brilliantly and lose.
After the gameDon’t forget to talk to your players after the match. A well-chosen comment here can pay rich dividends in terms of motivating a player in the future. Knowing that they did a particular skill well last week gives them something to both build upon and strive for this week. |


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